Tonight Bob, myself, our nieces and Jean Jean were visiting a family member who was admitted to a hospital near our house. We didn’t know that she was there until late this afternoon. Actually this person is the wife of my cousin. This cousin is kind of close to Bob because he was the person that stood in at the Church for our wedding as the “Dad” of Bob. I guess she’s been in the hospital for nearly a week now. She was hospitalized because she just had her surgery today for breast cancer. I was even surprised that she had surgery because she already told the family when she was diagnosed 2 years ago that she would never want to undergo a surgery. I’m glad she changed her mind though so that at least she can be saved if ever.
When we got to the hospital my cousin wasn’t there. He went home to the farm to tend to their businesses. He will be back tomorrow. Hopefully we can go back tomorrow to see him. Anyway, his wife when I first met her she must have weigh like 150lbs, when I saw her tonight she might just weigh like 90lbs or less. She didn’t look good too. She told us tonight that she felt like vomiting, it could be from medication. Really at the time that she was diagnose 2 years ago if she would have agreed to the doctor to remove the lump in her breast she could have been better now. At that time when my cousin or some member of the family would mention to her to go to the doctor for check up she will get upset and tell everybody to not be telling her because she knows what to do and its her body. So when I saw her during the funeral of my Aunt(her mother-in-law) I never mention anything about her sickness. I could see at that time that shes losing weight and she looks different. I think really her grandkids are the one that makes her want to live now. I hope its not too late for her. Her daughter told me tonight that the doctor said that there is still more cancer inside. They are not sure if she wants to go through more surgery again, though.
I really hope that she can still be here for awhile to enjoy watching her grandkids and adopted kid grow up. I hope she won’t give up easy. I hope she’s as strong as before when her and my cousin has problem in their marriage life she didn’t give up, hopefully she can do the same now. She’s just in her late 40’s. She’s too young still to go away.
Just pray for her recovery!