I was just looking at my FB feeds when I came across the headline in-front of me that read:
“So many things to look forward to this month! With all the birthdays, my bachelorette party in Vegas, getting married and honeymoon in greece, I can’t contain my excitement!”
I had to read it again and double check. My goodness the kid that used to be toddler when I first arrived in the States, that person that wrote the message on top, she turned 2 at that time. My gosh now she’s getting married. Her name is Shaina. A beautiful girl. I asked Bob right away if he saw the news feed of Shaina that she’s getting married? He told me no. I immediately told Bob that we are getting old already. I said look at Shaina, she’s one of the kids that we knew there and when we left she’s just a tween, now she’s getting married. Big sigh, its depressing, it just shows we are already over the hill now. 🙂 LOL
When I met the mom of Shaina I was just on my few months living in the States. Bob knew her dad Steve, but didn’t know that he was married to a Filipina. When I went to work with Bob and helped out, that’s how I met Steve. He asked me if I’m a Filipina or a Chinese? Ha ha ha, he can’t figure it out. I told him I’m a Filipina, and told him that Bob is my husband. He was shocked. He told Bob that “Oh, I didn’t know that your wife is from the Philippines. My wife Sylvia is from the Philippines too”. He then told us to come to there house that weekend, which we did. I was so happy seeing and knowing Sylvia. Sylvia’s husband Steve, he is an engineer, and a retired worker from Boeing. Sylvia was really like a big sister to me there. She’s the one person I can really be proud to have known in the US. I’ve never had any issues with her. Sylvia and I used to get together fairly often twice or more a month. More often during summer time with family. We had a few parties with our Fil-Am friends during summer and Christmas party during winter time. Few places for venues; either our house or at Sylvia’s or at one of our dear friend Connie from Oregon.
Shaina has a little brother name Patrick. He’s just a few months older than Chris. That’s one reason that Sylvia and I met up almost every week for the kids to have playtime together. Shaina was really a good big sister to Patrick and to Chris too. Very talkative, playful and funny. She’s also close to my mother-in-law. She’s just like a grand daughter to Mom. Sylvia and family including Shaina are still close to my mother-in-law. They visit mom when they have time.
I also met Sylvia’s sister Bebe when she first came to the States. Bebe was engaged to a guy from Oregon. Mom was the god-mother during her wedding. We all became close and more when Bebe became a mother of 2 kids. So we all get together at Sylvia’s house almost during weekends so that the kids will bond and play together. I saw them (Sylvia and Bebe and Bebe’s kids) when they came here to the Philippines for a visit. They’re from Cebu, so I flew there to see them. It was really nice bonding with them again. I really told Aaron to see Sylvia & Steve when he goes to the States.
To Sylvia and family, I really miss you guys. I will never forget you Sylvia no matter what. To Shaina & Michael (husband t0 be of Shaina): Congratulations to the 2 of you. Wishing you both the happiness in the world. I’m so happy for you Shane. Have fun on your honeymoon in Greece. I hope to see you all again someday.
papaduck
Mrs Feyma,
Sounds like true friends for life.
Feyma
So true PapaDuck. I’ve been really bless knowing them. I treasured that part of my life.
Good seeing you here. Hi to Ann!
Cordillera Cowboy
Oh my, where does the time go? when my wife and were courting, she was babysitting her sisters two toddlers. Now, our niece has a kid and a career, and our nephew will retire from the US Air Force soon.
It’s good that you stay in touch with your stateside friends. I think it means a lot to them.
Take care,
Pete
Feyma
Ha ha ha… I know what you mean Pete. Time really flies so quickly. My experienced were similar with your wife. I’m sure your wife, she’s happy seeing the success of her niece and nephew.
Thank goodness for facebook. I did keep in contact with my close friends there. So happy reconnecting with almost all the people that close to me there.
Thank you Pete for stopping by, and thank you for sharing!
Jim Hannah
Feyma:
Never forget this…”you are not “over the hill” until you start to say it”. If you groan when you get up from a chair; if you find a little stick and keep it thinking “that might be good for stirring paint”, if you think that “modern music is just rubbish”, and you think that everything is “just oh so expensive these days”, or your love life is once a week if you’re lucky, you could be getting past it. Therefore, don’t let these things happen. Our generation is not over the hill until we are 75, and I won’t have it said otherwise!!!!!
🙂
Feyma
Hi Jim – Thank you so much. You just made my day. 🙂
At least you made me think of what was the purpose of the cane. I am really bringing with me every morning a stick while walking though. Just to scare off the dog while walking in our neighborhood. Ha ha ha…
*** “modern music is just rubbish” *** — I will not going to argue with you. I can’t stand the some of the songs nowadays. It’s just all noise. LOL.
*** Our generation is not over the hill until we are 75, and I won’t have it said otherwise!!!!! *** — Ha ha ha, I agree with you. LOL
Thank you so much for your nice comment and thank you too for sharing here.
Have a great day!
Bill
Feyma,
I loudly echo Jim’s sentiments. You and Bob are still Spring Chickens! I don’t think they call it spring over there, but you get my point! lol
But I do know the Philippines isn’t short on chickens. haha When it comes to forging true friendships there are no boundaries. It’s awesome you maintain that friendship.
Like you and Bob, I have some friends here that I will never lose touch with despite the distance.
Keep smiling!
Bill
Richard
Feyma,
My paternal grandfather, who was born shortly after the civil war, told me when he was about 85 years old “if you get to be my age and you can count your true friends on your fingers and fill one hand you are lucky..and if any are still alive you are blessed”..I never forgot that…lol
You are so fortunate to have such good and valued friends..as are they.
God Bless..
~~Richard