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Here it is just a week before Christmas and I’m in the Christmas Spirit and have been for awhile. I know how old I am, as my body reminds me on a daily basis as to that fact. But my mind won’t believe it. As a matter of fact, it rejects the concept of aging outright. I think it’s a good trait, as I have no use being around curmudgeons or sour people they bore me completely.

I was at the American Legion Hall in Olongapo the other day, at 8:30 in the morning to meet with a guy that I needed to conduct business with. The hall had been open for 30 minutes and the beer was flowing and the griping was at full steam. Who needs that before breakfast? I told my friend that we should head over to Mac Do’s and get a coffee and some food and talk. But as Mickey D’s doesn’t sell beer at any time that plan was quashed.

I’m well known to have and enjoy a refreshing adult beverage most days, but even that was way too early for me. One of the guy’s that has know me for years, asked why I never hang around there with them. That was a good question that I didn’t even have a good answer for, or at least one I could say out loud. My answer would have been something like; “I’m way too young to hang around here!” or “I refuse to sit around here waiting to die, I have too much to do today.” So I remained silent and left them to their exciting life.

On Facebook I posted a picture (see below) that said; “If you haven’t grown up by age 50, you don’t have to. And I received some funny comments agreeing with me. But I’ve called it the “Peter Pan Syndrome” For when I was a young boy in the 1950’s and saw Peter Pan on TV I was quite taken with it. Except it stared Mary Martin, a girl playing as a boy. I will admit that confused my tender young brain for a few years, but I figured it out.

Age is how you think and feel, and not how long you’ve lived. I’ve known people thirty years younger who thought older than I did. They were old before their time, and had never really learned to enjoy life. I for one have never been accused of that!

Once I realized that I was never gonna’ get out of this life alive, I stopped taking it so seriously. That gave me more time to enjoy the life I am living, and see the humor that surrounds us if we take the time to see it.

So as the Christmas Season draws near, please remember it’s all for the kids, and us kids at heart, so embrace it, and then watch the eyes of your children, as they will show us the way to a satisfying life. By the way; never worry about the size of your Christmas tree. In the eyes of the children, they are all 30 feet tall. Try to keep that good feeling that comes with the season with you for the rest of the year. And someday you’ll be as young as me.

As we sit under that mango tree, on a beautiful sunny day with friends and family close by, whether you are sipping an Ice tea or a cold SMB, know that your life has turned out the way you’ve planned, or at best it soon will.

May I wish each and every member of the LiP Family the best Christmas ever, and a brand new year that will exceed all those in the past.

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Paul Thompson

Paul Thompson; has resided in the Philippines since 1993, living close to Subic Bay. I’m married to a wonderful girl named Maria (AKA Mayang).Who is from Gordon Heights in Olongapo where she grew up with her Mom & Dad and seven siblings Our two daughters are both grown up and have left the nest, the eldest married to a wonderful guy named Chris, and they have blessed us with our granddaughter Heather Colleen Our youngest daughter and her husband Cecil have blessed us with a grandson named. Jayden Logan. I’m a retired U.S. NAVY Senior Chief after 22 years of active duty. After retirement from the Navy I lived for 7 years in Puerto Rico as a Night Club owner. Then Hurricane Hugo told me to find a new line of work, I was hired by Military Sealift Command and went back to sea in Asia as a Merchant Seaman for 10 years. After 30 plus years at sea I buried my anchor on a mountain in the Philippines and am now residing in Dinalupihan (or DinBat for short), Roosevelt, Bataan where we built our home. And last but not least, anything I writes will be pure "Tongue in Cheek "If anybody is offended, I'll lose no sleep over it, but here's a quick Mea Culpa in advance!

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Hudson

Paul,
Age is just a number, and you’re only as young as you think you are. (i’m only 22 yo) I can’t run a football like in high school anymore, and I don’t know who that old guy is in the mirror, but I enjoy everyday.
Merry Christmas to you and yours!!!

Paul Thompson
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Paul Thompson

Hudson;
It’s always a pleasure to hear from an enlighten person, and like you I have no idea who the hells face I’m shaving every day. It surely can’t be me!

Neal in RI
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Neal in RI

Paul
Shaving every day, you are making some of us look baad!

Paul Thompson
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Paul Thompson

Neal;
Every few days is more to the truth. You caught me!

Rick Miksell
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Rick Miksell

Hello Bob Martin.
Thinking young is the most important thing. Too many of us fall into the old person’s frame of mind and there is pressure to do so. I refuse to think old or even to act that way. I enjoy being who I am and defy anyone who expects anything else. Since I am single I don’t know what age wife I would like to have or for that matter what age would be most appropiate. Hope I spelled that right.

MindanaoBob
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Hi Rick – Just want to be clear… I didn’t write this article. Today’s LiP article is from Paul Thompson! Have a Merry Christmas, Rick!

Paul Thompson
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Paul Thompson

Bob;
It makes me proud that my writing could be confused with your

MindanaoBob
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Ha ha… I’m not sure how much of an honor that is, Paul!

Paul Thompson
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Paul Thompson

Hi Rick;
I agree with how you feel about age. And as for a wife, age doesn’t matter a whit, because there is no guide to falling in love.

BillB
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BillB

Rick, I agree with Paul and you and everyone here that age is in your mind. As for falling in love and age, again it is in the mind. My first wife was 17 years older than me and we were together for 11 years. The reason that we did not stay together is a long story but it was on good terms. I also have a friend that was married to a lady that was 15 years younger and he left her because she started acting to old and stopped living life and she was only 40. So finding… Read more »

Paul Thompson
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Paul Thompson

BillB;
I liked the way you made your point. You are so right!

Neal in RI
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Neal in RI

Paul
Merry Christmas to you an all your Family

“May you stay forever young”

Paul Thompson
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Paul Thompson

Hello Youngster;
Have fun delivering all those Christmas presents for the USPS, and have a great Christmas yourself!

Paul Thompson
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Paul Thompson

Neal: Hey Youngster;
Have fun delivering all those Christmas presents for the USPS, and have a great Christmas yourself!

Greg Kadlec
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Greg Kadlec

Well said Paul……it reminds me of a saying I think about often….”Attitude is everything”…..Have a very Merry Christmas and a Happier New Year!!!!!

Paul Thompson
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Paul Thompson

Greg;
I think Jimmy Buffett said it best; “With changes in latitude they’ll be changes in attitude.”
One’s attitude towards life is how their life will turn out.

Gary Wigle
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Gary Wigle

My wife Meriam calls me “BABY.” Does that count as being young? 😀

Paul Thompson
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Paul Thompson

Gary;
Of course it does, she’s looking at you through her eyes, seeing the man she loves!

Lenny
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Lenny

Your right on Pablo……The only things I can add are, I never have had friends over 35 years old.. most are in their twenties. We drink, talk and party together….I keep myself in good shape…. I even hooked up with a girl in her twenties (meaning she is real, I know I could hook up with alot more here, but I am talking about for the real reasons)…….Don’t know what it is… but it is …. it’s me…. my way of life, .. if I stopped, I be 6 foot down in a couple of years .. (Right Paul?)…. I… Read more »

Paul Thompson
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Paul Thompson

Lenny;
Sixty is the new forty. As for friends mine vary through the age groups, one of my dear friends is in his 70’s and a couple in their 80’s and they are all very cool, and the most are younger than me. It’s as Greg said above;”Attitude is everything” But it sounds like you’ve figured that out already.
I could hook up with girls that are younger, but for some reason my wife frowns upon it! (lol)

Miss August
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Miss August

If sixty is the new forty, then I’m only 30 years young. Woohoo!

Merry Christmas to you and your family, Paul I hope it’s a blessed one.

Paul Thompson
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Paul Thompson

Miss August;
The best of the Christmas season to you and your family!
We’re all just Toy’s R Us kids! (I bought myself another RC boat to terrorise the fish.) Mayang hasn’t found out about it yet!

Ralph E. castillo
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Well said Paul,,,right on target.

Paul Thompson
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Paul Thompson

Ralph;
Thank you for that, but the target at my age becomes wherever the arrow landed! (lol)

Hudson
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Hudson

usless info:
Mary Martin was also the mother of actor Larry Hagman.

MindanaoBob
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Come on Hudson… don’t mislead us! I remember clearly that Miss Ellie was Larry Hagman’s mother! 😉

Paul Thompson
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Paul Thompson

Bob;
Miss Ellie? You’ve watched way to much “Dallas” The Beverly Hillbillies” had a Miss Ellie too, Mmmmmmmmmm>

Paul Thompson
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Paul Thompson

Hudson;
There is no useless info; I didn’t know that and today I’ve learned something new, so today is almost complete. (Beer this afternoon)

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