Dear Feyma, I am chatting to a lady from the Philippines. We’ve been chatting not for a long time. She’s been asking money.
Well, I was writing about this same topic before but I will rewrite again. Somehow some people still get suck in with the beautiful picture of the young girl they’re chatting with and get hooked and get into trouble. Really the whole email of this fellow made me upset and sick to my stomach just by knowing how much money he had given to the girl. I will not and never say how much because it’s a private thing but I will just say that it is ridiculously big sum of money. I am really speechless of how the lady manipulated this fellow for him to give such a huge amount of money. As always I answered back pretty strong words for this guy. I told him to read the good advice from all of you. I thank you all guys in advance for your comments for the guy.
Even though the girl’s been receiving the big amount from this guy still she wanted more and more. She keeps telling him that another expenses came up that her parents got ill. Later her other member of the family got sick and in need badly of surgery and medicine. To find out the girl’s parents were okay and no surgery needed for the family member. On top of that the lady he is chatting with used different names and she’s not even in the school she told him that she’s going to. The address that she told him doesn’t exist. Still the asking of money just keeps going on and on and he is still giving. I could never imagined somebody asking such big amount of money and not even meeting in person yet. And for the guy to give in, it just beyond belief. I mean you can’t tell if its not a scam if the other person asked you money and its over your monthly paycheck? My God how stupid could anybody be. Am I just naive here or I am stupid on this kind of thing? It really upset me sometimes that the guy doesn’t think . Are they using the other head or what?
Finally he realized he was being scammed but its too late already he lost so much money. But then again just a sweet little talk from the girl that scammed him, he will give in again. The cycle keeps going. I wonder if these people ever learn though. Some did learn their lessons, some did not. Oh well, its their loss, not ours. It just bugs me to death because people judged us here since we are married to foreigners that we are also doing same thing the other ladies were doing. Majority really are not scumbags but since its a lot now doing bad stuff on the net then the people judge us all in general that we are the same.
I hope and pray to God that this guy has a good job in the country where he came from for him to be giving big amount of money. I hate for him to be giving money to this girl but then he has to work 2- 3 jobs for him to send money to the girl. I’ve heard a lot of stories like this before, and the girl here living like a queen spends the money like there ‘s no tomorrow but the guy sacrifices a lot in his country.
Beware of scumbags right now. It’s holiday season they need lots of money to spend. They will do anything to get money even showing off something on the web cam. Please don’t listen when the manipulators talk to you into giving money again. It’s nice to help others but it’s not a good feeling to be scammed though. BE WISE!
PLEASE BE VERY CAREFUL EVERYBODY! Have a good Holiday Season to All!